On intimacy…
When I was in my teens, friends make it a point to tease me about my body. I am more well-developed than the average girl my age. I have the curves in all the right places, they say. I was a shy kid and have always kept to myself when I can. It didn’t help that I got so conscious with my body because of the teasing. It was all friendly banter, don’t get me wrong. But still…
So when I met Matt (not his real name) in college, everything changed. He is a straightforward guy so he would tell me in not so many words that he liked what I was wearing, how it hugged my body (not in a malicious way, believe me) and how it made me stand out. It was disconcerting in the beginning. But little did I know that it became a challenge for me to improve my appearance. Plus the fact that my self-esteem blossomed because of his daily praises.
He never belittled whatever we had to share back then. Intimacy became second nature to me. Something that is pure and happy. That’s one of the things I am thankful for. Matt made me feel good about intimacy.
And I miss it. Intimacy and being with him.
Hi xixi, I’m tagging you… I hope you don’t mind
. Matt is such a sweet guy. Not many guys are like him. Naging ex mo ba sya? lol
Thank you for the tag, Liza! Yes, Matt is my ex-boyfriend and the father of my child
hi there.. you have a nice blog..
ill add you up then.. enjoy! have a great day!
It’s wonderful how Matt made you feel about yourself. But, sad that it didn’t work out between the two of you. Sorry for that.
Awww! This is a sweet post.
Thanks for always dropping by my site. Btw, i have a tag for you here > http://www.nicemorning.net/2007/11/11/8-things/
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Hello Xixi!
well,being curvy is definitely an advantage of a woman.and you`re lucky that you found someone who apprecite it truthfully
just keep up the appearance,you`ll love yourself more!
thanx for the comment btw,and sure,i dont mind that you signed my linker,pls do link up my blog/blogs here in favor?LOL!
thanx!
ghee
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genuinity..,maturity..,xoxo
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cheers to the intimacy!!
ghee